Wednesday, December 10, 2008

If you're happy and you know it...

The much delayed Thanksgiving post is here. It's been a hectic few weeks. First leading into the holiday with all the responsibilities that come with hosting, then the weeks following which included Kristopher's 6-day trip to India. So forgive me for not posting sooner, but it really has been difficult finding the time!



Anyway, Thanksgiving was a success, and Esme sampled everything from the turkey to the stuffing, sweet potatoes to mashed potatoes. She really seemed to enjoy herself. She loves having her family near (especially her beloved Ella), and it's a treat to watch her find her place among this motley assortment of characters.

So in the spirit of Thanksgiving, I want to express my appreciation for Esme's family. She is a lucky girl indeed, from all her wonderful aunts. Each one unique and uniquely special to her (what's more, thanks to them she also has loving uncles in her life). To her full set of grandparents. I grew up without the benefit of grandfathers. Seeing Esme interact with hers is especially meaningful to me. Plus she's already forged such special relationships with her Nama and Nana, it's hard to believe she's only known them a mere 16 months. I was just chuckling watching her have a full conversation with her Nana on the phone last night. Walking around, phone to ear, responding to every, long-distance word. In addition to her grandmas, Esme even has great grandmas and a great grandpa too. All of whom hold very special places in her heart.

Well, perhaps this expresses it all best...



Clap! Clap! Clap!

Thursday, November 13, 2008

This Old House

One of the things that we like about our house is the fact that it hasn't been tinkered with a whole lot. It still looks much like it did when it was first built in 1931. A funny time to build a house, really, when you think about it. Still reeling from the crash of '29, the country was in the thick of the Great Depression. Ours was always meant to be a modest house, and yet they still outfitted it with hand-glazed tile in both the kitchen and bathroom and oak flooring throughout. Lucky for us, all of that is mostly still intact. And so when we endeavored to update our bathroom all we really wanted to do was replace the tile floor which had definitely seen better days:




Kristopher and his Dad (Esme's Pop and an expert in these matters) were going to do the work themselves. Another lucky break. Kris figured the work would take 3, at most 4 days. Though we liked the funky black and white tile design, our vintage pink and black bathroom already has a lot going on, so instead we opted for a more understated, yet still period, white hexagonal tile.

A plumber had warned us about taking up that floor. "You'll find a hornet's nest," he said. We didn't exactly find a hornet's nest, but it was a quite a mess. Basically beneath the floor was a pit filled with ash, cinder and gravel. Beneath all this was a false ceiling. Kris and his Dad spent hours hauling all of that debris out of the bathroom and down to the garage. While this was all underway, they also discovered a slow leak oozing from one of the pipes. This was most likely a result of the demolition, though later we learned, as these were the original threaded iron pipes, that this was an accident waiting to happen. This leak set us back two days on the project as a plumber had to come in and replace all the bathroom plumbing. And since we wanted to preserve the walls (and that hand-glazed tile), he had to use flexible plastic piping throughout from basement to bathroom at the tune of... oh, I can't even bring myself to type it here. Let's just say Esme won't be getting that pony this year.

With pipes in place, Kris and his Dad set about building a new floor and laying the tile. This they did beautifully.
So now the plan all along was just to replace the floor, we wanted to keep the orginal fixtures because they still worked, they looked pretty good and, well, we were, at least when we started out, on a budget. Well, first the sink went. We hoped to recoat it in order to brighten it up and hide some rust stains that developed over the years. This didn't go as planned. The result was more like a thick slathering of paint and less like a fresh coat of porcelain. So we bought a new sink. What the hell, might as well do our part for the economy. Then the toilet went. This we knew was a possibility. Apparently old toilets, like sleeping dogs, should just be left alone. Once you try to put them back, they leak like a sieve. So we went back and bought the toilet. Thank God we could keep our tub.

All in all the project took twice as long as planned. Pop was incredibly generous with his time and expertise. And Kristopher, with his usual aplomb, somehow managed to balance this renovation gone wrong and his day-to-day work responsibilities. And Esme and I are particularly indebted to Grandma and Grandpa who put us up all that time we were without a bathroom. Even after we moved back in we were still at the mercy of plumbers as there were all sort of little things and issues that kept popping up. But, and I'm crossing my toes as I type this, I think that's all behind us now:



And for those of you who checked in not to hear me ramble on about the bathroom, but to see a recent picture of the girl, I've got you covered, fear not:

Thanks to Nana for the jacket!

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Swing Vote

Esme participated in the political process yesterday. We headed over to our local polling place-- which was conveniently located next to a playground --and did our part for Obama. It was definitely more bustling and crowded than I've ever seen it. And we waited a little more than a half hour for our time in the booth which was better than what Daddy experienced coming first thing in the morning. He waited over an hour! This, however, was not Esme's first brush with democracy. She voted in the primaries, too. I'm excited for her and for us and our country. This is such a positive step forward toward change for the better.

Monday, November 3, 2008

The Itsy Bitsy Spider

Esme just loves "The Itsy Bitsy Spider." For months now those in her inner circle know that when she presses her two index fingers together and says "EEEEEEtsy," it's time to start singing. Once at a birthday party after the ceremonial singing of the birthday song, I looked over to see my daughter making THE sign. It was as if to say, that song was nice and all, but can we sing "Itsy Bitsy Spider" instead? Later that night I had to explain to her that people generally don't take requests at birthday parties. Her response? "Eeeetsy!"

So when the time came to choose a Halloween costume it was a no-brainer. The biggest challenge was to help her make the connection between her favorite song and the strange appendages we suspended from her back. Let's just say there was lots of singing and signing going on. The costume itself came together rather easily thanks to Grandma. And all in all, Esme tolerated it rather well. We attended the village's costume parade where Esme got to see many of her friends: a dinosaur, a puppy dog, an elephant and a nun.

I too dressed up in the spirit of the occasion with a make-shift "spider web" skirt.



It was a great day, and I think Esme really enjoyed herself.

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Driving in the Sun. . .

A HUGE thank you to Grandma and Grandpa for enabling what was a very much-needed vacation. Kristopher and I had a great time in Northern California. We hiked. We tasted wine. We pigged out. And speaking of pigs... we even took a mud bath. Anyway, it was a great way to celebrate 10 (wow) years of marital bliss.

Esme had a great time with Grandma and Grandpa. She went to the playground. Ate at the diner. And enjoyed getting to know them a little better, I'm sure. Fortunately, she didn't seem to register our absence. Though Grandma did report one incident. It occurred while they were watching The Today Show together. Apparently seeing Al Roker and Meredith Vieira on the screen prompted Esme to say, "Mama, Dada." Ohh, so that's where we were off to.



Anyway, the trip wouldn't have been possible without Grandma and Grandpa. And knowing that our little girl was in good hands enabled us to relax and truly enjoy ourselves. I'm happy to be back home now. And though happy to have me back, I know that Esme is also missing her Gs. She's a lucky girl indeed.

Monday, October 20, 2008

The Great Pumpkin


Since autumn is in full swing and Halloween is just around the corner, it was time to hit the apple orchard and pumpkin patch. Aunt Stephie and Uncle Kevin live in Jersey "farm country" and were kind enough to host the event. We missed out on most of the apple picking due to naptime, but Esme more than made up for it in the pumpkin patch.

We thought it would be cute to photograph her perched upon a pumpkin. However what was simply a photo-op for us turned out to be some serious conditioning for Esme. Now as far as she's concerned pumpkins are not some crazy autumn vegetable from which we get Jack 'o Lanterns and pies. No. They're little Esme-sized seats.



She spent the rest of the afternoon attempting to climb upon every pumpkin she saw. And even now, more than a week later, she happily sits upon the one at Grandma and Grandpa's. And I'm really not sure how she's going to feel about it when we start carving up the one we have at home.

Apple picking has not changed Esme's opinion on apples. She just doesn't like them. She even rejects applesauce. Pears, too, are not a favorite. She does say "apple" however, which is too cute. I'll try to get some video up soon. It's one of her few multi-syllabic words. "Ahhh-pull" she says with the stress on "pull".




















Friday, October 3, 2008

Sleepover!


Last weekend may very well go down as one of Esme's all-time favorites. She relishes any opportunity to spend time with her cousins, but never before has she had the pleasure of their company for an entire weekend.

Though Saturday was rainy, we still managed to get outside for a bit. That was followed by pizza, bath and bed for Esme, and a screening of The Muppet Movie, complete with popcorn. Ethan was partial to Animal. While Ella appreciated Miss Piggy's karate moves.

In the morning we hit the diner for breakfast.




























Then we joined Grandma and Grandpa for a trip to Liberty Science Center. That was tons of fun, especially the IExplore Room where all three kids had a ball trying out all the different activities. Esme just loved painting...



Look how good Esme is getting with her letters! I'm sure it's all thanks to all the time Ethan and Ella spent drilling them with her.

Seriously, her much more advanced cousins did have some influence on her. Just days after their visit, Esme took her very first steps! I guess she wants to be absolutely sure that the next time she sees them she'll be able to keep up.