Wednesday, December 10, 2008

If you're happy and you know it...

The much delayed Thanksgiving post is here. It's been a hectic few weeks. First leading into the holiday with all the responsibilities that come with hosting, then the weeks following which included Kristopher's 6-day trip to India. So forgive me for not posting sooner, but it really has been difficult finding the time!



Anyway, Thanksgiving was a success, and Esme sampled everything from the turkey to the stuffing, sweet potatoes to mashed potatoes. She really seemed to enjoy herself. She loves having her family near (especially her beloved Ella), and it's a treat to watch her find her place among this motley assortment of characters.

So in the spirit of Thanksgiving, I want to express my appreciation for Esme's family. She is a lucky girl indeed, from all her wonderful aunts. Each one unique and uniquely special to her (what's more, thanks to them she also has loving uncles in her life). To her full set of grandparents. I grew up without the benefit of grandfathers. Seeing Esme interact with hers is especially meaningful to me. Plus she's already forged such special relationships with her Nama and Nana, it's hard to believe she's only known them a mere 16 months. I was just chuckling watching her have a full conversation with her Nana on the phone last night. Walking around, phone to ear, responding to every, long-distance word. In addition to her grandmas, Esme even has great grandmas and a great grandpa too. All of whom hold very special places in her heart.

Well, perhaps this expresses it all best...



Clap! Clap! Clap!

Thursday, November 13, 2008

This Old House

One of the things that we like about our house is the fact that it hasn't been tinkered with a whole lot. It still looks much like it did when it was first built in 1931. A funny time to build a house, really, when you think about it. Still reeling from the crash of '29, the country was in the thick of the Great Depression. Ours was always meant to be a modest house, and yet they still outfitted it with hand-glazed tile in both the kitchen and bathroom and oak flooring throughout. Lucky for us, all of that is mostly still intact. And so when we endeavored to update our bathroom all we really wanted to do was replace the tile floor which had definitely seen better days:




Kristopher and his Dad (Esme's Pop and an expert in these matters) were going to do the work themselves. Another lucky break. Kris figured the work would take 3, at most 4 days. Though we liked the funky black and white tile design, our vintage pink and black bathroom already has a lot going on, so instead we opted for a more understated, yet still period, white hexagonal tile.

A plumber had warned us about taking up that floor. "You'll find a hornet's nest," he said. We didn't exactly find a hornet's nest, but it was a quite a mess. Basically beneath the floor was a pit filled with ash, cinder and gravel. Beneath all this was a false ceiling. Kris and his Dad spent hours hauling all of that debris out of the bathroom and down to the garage. While this was all underway, they also discovered a slow leak oozing from one of the pipes. This was most likely a result of the demolition, though later we learned, as these were the original threaded iron pipes, that this was an accident waiting to happen. This leak set us back two days on the project as a plumber had to come in and replace all the bathroom plumbing. And since we wanted to preserve the walls (and that hand-glazed tile), he had to use flexible plastic piping throughout from basement to bathroom at the tune of... oh, I can't even bring myself to type it here. Let's just say Esme won't be getting that pony this year.

With pipes in place, Kris and his Dad set about building a new floor and laying the tile. This they did beautifully.
So now the plan all along was just to replace the floor, we wanted to keep the orginal fixtures because they still worked, they looked pretty good and, well, we were, at least when we started out, on a budget. Well, first the sink went. We hoped to recoat it in order to brighten it up and hide some rust stains that developed over the years. This didn't go as planned. The result was more like a thick slathering of paint and less like a fresh coat of porcelain. So we bought a new sink. What the hell, might as well do our part for the economy. Then the toilet went. This we knew was a possibility. Apparently old toilets, like sleeping dogs, should just be left alone. Once you try to put them back, they leak like a sieve. So we went back and bought the toilet. Thank God we could keep our tub.

All in all the project took twice as long as planned. Pop was incredibly generous with his time and expertise. And Kristopher, with his usual aplomb, somehow managed to balance this renovation gone wrong and his day-to-day work responsibilities. And Esme and I are particularly indebted to Grandma and Grandpa who put us up all that time we were without a bathroom. Even after we moved back in we were still at the mercy of plumbers as there were all sort of little things and issues that kept popping up. But, and I'm crossing my toes as I type this, I think that's all behind us now:



And for those of you who checked in not to hear me ramble on about the bathroom, but to see a recent picture of the girl, I've got you covered, fear not:

Thanks to Nana for the jacket!

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Swing Vote

Esme participated in the political process yesterday. We headed over to our local polling place-- which was conveniently located next to a playground --and did our part for Obama. It was definitely more bustling and crowded than I've ever seen it. And we waited a little more than a half hour for our time in the booth which was better than what Daddy experienced coming first thing in the morning. He waited over an hour! This, however, was not Esme's first brush with democracy. She voted in the primaries, too. I'm excited for her and for us and our country. This is such a positive step forward toward change for the better.

Monday, November 3, 2008

The Itsy Bitsy Spider

Esme just loves "The Itsy Bitsy Spider." For months now those in her inner circle know that when she presses her two index fingers together and says "EEEEEEtsy," it's time to start singing. Once at a birthday party after the ceremonial singing of the birthday song, I looked over to see my daughter making THE sign. It was as if to say, that song was nice and all, but can we sing "Itsy Bitsy Spider" instead? Later that night I had to explain to her that people generally don't take requests at birthday parties. Her response? "Eeeetsy!"

So when the time came to choose a Halloween costume it was a no-brainer. The biggest challenge was to help her make the connection between her favorite song and the strange appendages we suspended from her back. Let's just say there was lots of singing and signing going on. The costume itself came together rather easily thanks to Grandma. And all in all, Esme tolerated it rather well. We attended the village's costume parade where Esme got to see many of her friends: a dinosaur, a puppy dog, an elephant and a nun.

I too dressed up in the spirit of the occasion with a make-shift "spider web" skirt.



It was a great day, and I think Esme really enjoyed herself.

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Driving in the Sun. . .

A HUGE thank you to Grandma and Grandpa for enabling what was a very much-needed vacation. Kristopher and I had a great time in Northern California. We hiked. We tasted wine. We pigged out. And speaking of pigs... we even took a mud bath. Anyway, it was a great way to celebrate 10 (wow) years of marital bliss.

Esme had a great time with Grandma and Grandpa. She went to the playground. Ate at the diner. And enjoyed getting to know them a little better, I'm sure. Fortunately, she didn't seem to register our absence. Though Grandma did report one incident. It occurred while they were watching The Today Show together. Apparently seeing Al Roker and Meredith Vieira on the screen prompted Esme to say, "Mama, Dada." Ohh, so that's where we were off to.



Anyway, the trip wouldn't have been possible without Grandma and Grandpa. And knowing that our little girl was in good hands enabled us to relax and truly enjoy ourselves. I'm happy to be back home now. And though happy to have me back, I know that Esme is also missing her Gs. She's a lucky girl indeed.

Monday, October 20, 2008

The Great Pumpkin


Since autumn is in full swing and Halloween is just around the corner, it was time to hit the apple orchard and pumpkin patch. Aunt Stephie and Uncle Kevin live in Jersey "farm country" and were kind enough to host the event. We missed out on most of the apple picking due to naptime, but Esme more than made up for it in the pumpkin patch.

We thought it would be cute to photograph her perched upon a pumpkin. However what was simply a photo-op for us turned out to be some serious conditioning for Esme. Now as far as she's concerned pumpkins are not some crazy autumn vegetable from which we get Jack 'o Lanterns and pies. No. They're little Esme-sized seats.



She spent the rest of the afternoon attempting to climb upon every pumpkin she saw. And even now, more than a week later, she happily sits upon the one at Grandma and Grandpa's. And I'm really not sure how she's going to feel about it when we start carving up the one we have at home.

Apple picking has not changed Esme's opinion on apples. She just doesn't like them. She even rejects applesauce. Pears, too, are not a favorite. She does say "apple" however, which is too cute. I'll try to get some video up soon. It's one of her few multi-syllabic words. "Ahhh-pull" she says with the stress on "pull".




















Friday, October 3, 2008

Sleepover!


Last weekend may very well go down as one of Esme's all-time favorites. She relishes any opportunity to spend time with her cousins, but never before has she had the pleasure of their company for an entire weekend.

Though Saturday was rainy, we still managed to get outside for a bit. That was followed by pizza, bath and bed for Esme, and a screening of The Muppet Movie, complete with popcorn. Ethan was partial to Animal. While Ella appreciated Miss Piggy's karate moves.

In the morning we hit the diner for breakfast.




























Then we joined Grandma and Grandpa for a trip to Liberty Science Center. That was tons of fun, especially the IExplore Room where all three kids had a ball trying out all the different activities. Esme just loved painting...



Look how good Esme is getting with her letters! I'm sure it's all thanks to all the time Ethan and Ella spent drilling them with her.

Seriously, her much more advanced cousins did have some influence on her. Just days after their visit, Esme took her very first steps! I guess she wants to be absolutely sure that the next time she sees them she'll be able to keep up.

Friday, September 26, 2008

Oktoberfest

Hard to believe that another Oktoberfest has come and gone. This year was especially fun. The weather was beautiful. And it was such a nice mix of new and veteran 'festers. I'm also super-appreciative of all the help– from Mom's beloved potato salad to Deb's delicious pie, Steph's sugar cookies and Andrea's sweet treats. Kenny and Jen supplied one very potent case of German porter. And thanks to Tara and Cynthia and their big backyard (it's all relative!), the kids had much more room to frolic about.

Though this was technically Esme's second Oktoberfest, this year she was much more involved in the festivities. Here she is scooting about, eating a hard pretzel like a good kleines mädchen.








I'm only guessing here, but I think one of Esme's favorite parts about Oktoberfest was being able to share the head of the table with her BFF and next-door nabe, Sofia. We all agree that the girls eat best when stealing each other's food!


Here are some more fun highlights...

Friday, September 12, 2008

Bienvenue Chez Chicco




Welcome to Chez Chicco. We have a tantalizing menu today that we're sure you'll find very appealing. For starters we offer a silky-smooth purée of yogurt and ripe avocado. What's more, our staff will be delighted to spoon each bite directly in your mouth. Then to ensure you won't grow bored waiting for the next course to appear we have an amuse-bouche of only the finest kidney beans (organic and free range). Throw them? On the floor? Mais oui, no problem. The customer is king here at Chez Chicco. Coming up next you'll find matchsticks of boiled carrot each precision-cut for your dining pleasure. And the pièce de résistance. . . whole-wheat penne topped with a dollop of Zippy Cheese Sauce à la Moosewood. To quaff alongside your meal, whole milk, bien sûr, served up in your favorite sippy cup. Bon appetit, petite mademoiselle.

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Labor Day

We had a fun-filled Labor Day weekend. We started out with a quick day-trip to Sandy Hook National Park– just an hour's drive to what is truly a beautiful beach with lots of hiking and other activities to offer as well. Here's a short clip of Esme dipping her toes in the Atlantic.






Though we remembered to bring snacks and drinks, etc. I neglected to bring a change of clothes. Or towels for that matter. I mean, we're going to a beach. Who brings towels!? Fortunately Esme can still rock the diaper-only look, and seemed to really enjoy herself in the process:

Friday, August 22, 2008

Fang

As promised, photo documentation of the teeth. This was no easy feat. As it is, preserving Esme for posterity as something more than a blur is a bit of a challenge these days. Plus getting her not only to sit still for the camera, but to also open her mouth wide enough so that I can capture her sesame-seed-sized choppers was at moments beyond my capabilities. But persist I did, and so here it goes...



What we have here are two, pointy little eye teeth on top. And two front teeth on the bottom which you will have to take my word for. Poor Esme has been under the weather all week. Runny nose. A low-grade fever one night. General punkiness. I think her still-in-seclusion front teeth may be the culprit. We'll see.

Anyway, she may look innocent enough. But let's just say I've been keeping extra heads of garlic around. Just in case...

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Don't cry...

Things have definitely returned to normal here. As normal as things can be. The big focus these days has been transitioning Esme to milk. It's part of turning 1, plus she has successfully weaned herself (and I'm happy to report that that process was about as smooth and easy as could be) so now more than ever she needs milk.



I didn't imagine she wouldn't like milk. It never crossed my mind. Plus she's such a fan of sippy cups that I figured any substance contained within would be likewise adored. Not so.

The closest we've gotten to her showing any love for milk is when she's able to outsmart the no-spill design of the sippy cup by bringing the milk up into the nozzle and shaking it out all over the floor. Then she proceeds to fingerpaint with it. When that grows tiresome, she simply scoots through it and on to the next thing.

More than drinking from a sippy cup, Esme loves to drink from a real cup. This is something we only allow under the strictest supervision and only while strapped into her high chair. Desperate to win her over to milk, we attempted to give her some in one of her beloved cups. Since part of the fun of cup-drinking is pouring it all over ourselves this is a far messier affair than when we fill her cup with water.

I think I just have to accept that a lot of milk is going to be spilled in the effort to convert her.

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Faster than a speeding bullet

Where to begin. This past Tuesday won't go down as one of Esme's favorites. Nor mine. Nor Kristopher's. I was getting ready to post here about the girl's first birthday. I could hear her in the hallway, rattling around like she usually does. She had only been away from me mere moments when she came scooting back in the den, all smiles. I noticed something strange around her mouth. Something white and powdery. I immediately rushed to the hall to see what it could be thinking she somehow got a hold of some soap from the linen closet. It wasn't soap. She had managed to find an ancient pill case of mine that I thought had long been thrown away. It held both Advil (candy-coated) and uncoated Excederin. I found a half dissolved Excederin among the debris and could see that her face was decorated with the remnants of both pills. I died a little then picked myself and her up, proceeded to induce vomiting which she endured like a champ while frantically dialing the pediatrician's office. The nurse urged me to call Poison Control which I did immediately.

Let me just say, Poison Control is wonderful. I was immediately connected to a doctor who handled the call with calm and reassurance. Since I was unable to deduce how much she has actually ingested, the doctor left it in my hands to decide the best course of action. His feeling was that it was unlikely she got very far since the amount of time she was alone was minimal. Plus infants aren't natural pill-poppers. They might sample, taste, suck a little, but they aren't as likely to swallow. With that in mind, he thought I could just take a wait and see approach. However, he also suggested that I could take her to the ER and have bloodwork done so that we could know for sure if she ingested more than her little body could handle.

Wanting to be safe rather than potentially sorry, I opted for the ER. We had to wait 4 hours for Esme to metabolize whatever she had taken before reporting to the hospital. That gave us enough time to call Daddy who wanted to come home and join us.

Poor Esme. With veins no larger than strands of hair the nurse had her work cut out for her. After failing to get anything out of her left arm, they had to then attack the right. With both Kristopher and me holding her down, she cried and wiggled and fought. It was just awful. Every bit of good I had accomplished as her mother dissolved that very moment for me.

But she quickly bounced back from the experience. With her snack cup full of cheddar bunnies firmly in her grip she was all smiles again. We waited out the hour for the results watching videos (a novelty for her), playing in the sink and reading books. The results were fine. Not a trace of anything in that hard-won vile of blood.

The nurse was sorry she only had "boy" band-aids available. I wasn't sorry at all. Now more than ever, Esme is my hero...

Happy First Birthday!

A few weeks after the fact, I know, but it's been busy. Esme has successfully turned 1 and with it comes all sorts of fun things: parties, cupcakes, presents, a visit to the doctor, shots... Esme was a trooper throughout her party despite missing her nap. And she was the lucky recipient of all sorts of great gifts. She's been having a ball getting to know each new toy and book.



The big news here is that Esme has finally sprouted a tooth! We thought this day would never come. In fact as of this writing, she has three on their way. The first to pop up was her lower left tooth. Then yesterday I noticed she had two upper teeth coming through. The funny thing is, typically the front teeth come first. Esme is anything but typical, though. Instead, her two eye teeth are on their way in. I've taken to calling her "Fang." This should be quite a sight once all three are in. I promise pictures.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

The better to see you with, my dear...

Ask Esme where her nose is and this is usually what you'll get.

















Ask her to show you her eye and this is what she'll do.















The nose pointing came first and almost always turns into deep nose picking. I try to clarify for Esme that that is her nostril and that we're getting more specific than is required, but she doesn't stand on particularities. A nose is a nose is a nose.

The eye bit came as a surprise. I had been working on "mouth" which for Esme was pretty much another excuse to explore the inside of her nose. Then one day I was reciting the alphabet and when I arrived at "I" I noticed that she was pointing to her "eye." I'm still not sure where she picked that up, but pick up she did. After congratulating Esme for her aptitude I launched into a discussion of that slippery slope we call homophones, but she would hear nothing of it.

Friday, July 18, 2008

Peace + Love

So Esme attended her first music festival this weekend. She really enjoyed herself and spent much of her time there walking around, taking in the scene.


The dress is courtesy of Aunt Sasha. Thanks Sash!

Esme is still a ways from walking on her own. Her preferred method of locomoting is still the beloved scoot. Concrete, grass, you name it, she's scooted it.




She also got ample practice drinking from her cup. Something she truly puts her all into...



Esme is rapidly acquiring new skills by the day and I'm trying to document them all. I'll be posting more soon.

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Happy (Belated) Fourth!

Esme celebrated her first Independence Day out by the Long Island sound. Though the weather proved less than cheery, she had a fun time catching up with Aunt Lori and Uncle Marc. Packing for two has its challenges, and Mommy left behind Esme's special Independence Day tee sent with love by her Nana. So sadly the holiday came and went without festive fashion to mark it.

Meanwhile I dressed Esme in Nana's tee today to document the cuteness. The good news is that it's 24-month size, so we'll get another chance come next year.

"Miss Independent" indeed! Taking pictures of Esme these days is nearly impossible. She's got places to go, cats to torment.


















Plus she insisted on doing all the accessorizing herself.






And I'm not joking. She selected the hat. And she put it on. I like the jaunty way it covers her eyes. Très chic!







But seriously, I need to figure out how to adjust the shutter speed because this girl is all movement... and all attitude, too!



















Finally she simply became bored with me and my demands to sit still and smile.






She hightailed it on out of there with yet another hat perched just so on her head.